3 simple ways to start living the life you desire and deserve.

Have you ever had an extraordinary decision to make, and instead of deciding what was best for YOURSELF…

…You went to everyone around you asking what THEY thought instead?

I call this crowdsourcing your confidence. 

Instead of trusting yourself to make the aligned decisions from your heart and soul, you rely on other people to know what’s best for you.

Why do we do this so often?

Because we’re often taught that one wrong decision could ruin us, so we feel unqualified to make that call ourselves.

But here’s the thing — that’s not true on both counts!!

One wrong decision does NOT have the power to ruin us, AND we are 100% qualified to make extraordinary decisions. But certain situations will almost always put us out of alignment and make us feel like we aren’t competent to decide.

Here are 3 things you can start doing to make soul-aligned decisions easier and faster!

#1 Seek Approval From Yourself

Release the need for approval from everyone before you make a big (or small) decision.

Because here’s the thing, no one knows you like you know yourself. YOU know your heart’s desires because they call to you every day. YOU know what is right for you and what isn’t. It’s almost instinctual how we can react when we know what works.

Seeking approval from others will never feel as fulfilling as following your soul’s desires.

#2 Put Your Desires First

When you make a decision based on someone else’s desires and not your own, you’re following someone else’s agenda.

It can be easy to do this (and feel like a safer option), especially if we’re used to putting others’ needs before our own.

But this will only come back to haunt you later: in regrets, resentments, second-guesses, and missed opportunities… 

…Because the decision was never right for YOU in the first place.

You can still respect others and their input, but putting them ABOVE you in any way isn’t a generous place to make a decision.

#3 Rely on Your Own Opinion and Intuition

People like to give their two cents… but this will water down your decisions. And what ultimately matters is what YOU think. 

Everyone has different experiences, desires, thoughts, and beliefs, so they might feel differently about this extraordinary decision than you do.

That’s why it’s important to stay grounded in WHO you are and your desires so you can be clear about what will move the needle forward in your life.

So before you feel like you need to crowdsource that confidence… ask yourself what you’re really seeking from other people and try to give that gift to yourself.

No one knows you as well as you know yourself. Always.

If you’re feeling disconnected from your intuition, simply think of a positive decision you made. Remember the feeling you had while making that choice. And keep repeating till it feels right.

I hope being aware of these 3 pitfalls of decision-making will make this process so much easier for you!

The more you stop giving your energy towards seeking outside sources for approval, attention, and acknowledgment the more you can connect back to those desires that are written on your heart.

And the faster and easier your extraordinary decision-making process can be!

Want more support in connecting with your inner knowing? Check out my Opening to Possibilities Cards!



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